Always you need to know that to find a lover and to maintain him or her around you; are two different things, always the men and women are asking themselves that what ways will they use so as to catch the most one they appreciate in their life. It is true for them to do that because the step of finding the one that will spend all the rest of your life with is not easy. We have some few advices for them to employ so as they can succeed on this as follows.
· *Be happy for yourself. You need to love yourself and be happy with yourself because if you are not happy with the way you are; don’t expect that there will be some one to be happy and be interested with you. That is the first to work with, so starting from today; if you are looking for somebody to marry, start doing the exercise of loving yourself first.
* Be fun. This sounds basic, but it's a critical factor in any relationship. Have a sense of humor. Don’t be uptight or negative. Always try to make yourself happily, by doing that you will be attractive to all people and hence you will get the one you want.
· *Be natural. For all the glamour advertisements out there especially for the women, the fake boobs, hair dyes, and all the rest, a man really appreciates something that is genuine. Be natural and don't pose. You want him to get to know the real you because it is the real you he's going to have to live with when you're married.
· *Be sexy. While sexuality isn't the only thing in a relationship, it is important. Show that you're interested in him/her romantically. Try not to be too prudish and withdrawn. Allow that aspect of the relationship to be free, fun, and lively. People who want to marry aren't looking for just a roommate.
· *Keep dating fun, as it should be. If dating goes well, and your interactions are positive, he/she'll want you to be closer to you. If he/she builds experience with you and sees you as a person he/she wants to be with forever, he/she will get more serious about his/her future and work, start considering more distant goals such as buying a home, and begin to discuss the future more and more. Only once he/she has made a decision about you and feels prepared and mature enough to propose will he/she do so.
· *Know your role. An important part of any relationship is making both partners aware that they have a crucial and indispensable role to play. Make sure that you and your lover have a similar view of the relationship. If you're looking for someone to have kids with and she/he's looking for a casual relationship, it's not going to work out
· *Communicate. From the start of the relationship and all through the marriage, the key to keeping the relationship together is communication. Tell him/her what you feel, both positive and negative
· *Practice humility. A humble person is not someone who downplays herself; it is a person who controls her ego and shows a genuine interest in others.You mightn’t know the effects of this habit but i twill make some body you love more to follow you through your humility actions.
· *Always appreciate the works of people especialy the one you feel. Also, tell him or her that so, even if she or he's already prideful. Then, put your support to her or him when he /she is at his best, and avoid nagging or berating him/she when he/she is at his worst.
· *Show confidence. Be sure of yourself, and ready to tackle whatever is before you. Many people love confidence of their partners. How can a man not feel privileged when he earns the esteem of a woman who values herself so highly? the same as woman.
· *Date. It may not be obvious, but you actually have to go out on dates with a somebody and commit to a relationship before he will propose. The term "date" in modern culture is vague and sometimes redefined as something more than it is. Simply converse with a some one and get to know more about each others' lives.
· *If you feel the need to have a serious talk, reconsider the approach. Instead of coming at him/her with a serious tone (which will bring up his innate fear of pressure for commitment), be upbeat and positive. "I really love spending time with you. I really feel happy around you. But I just want to double check and see if we're on the same page. While I know it is too soon for us to worry about it, I do want to get married in the future and want to make sure I'm dating someone who has the same values as me. As we get to know each other better and better, are you beginning to see me as someone you could possibly see that happening with?
ALWAYS DO THESE WHEN YOU WANT TO MARRY SOME ONE AND PLAYING WITH.
ALWAYS DO THESE WHEN YOU WANT TO MARRY SOME ONE AND PLAYING WITH.
Written by Jacqueline Jackson Managing Director of MgonjahMedias
