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WAYS OF SHOWING LOVE & CARE TO YOUR LOVER

Many people are not enjoying with their partners for the only one reason of not knowing the proper ways of treating,behaving as well as showing that they love and care their partners, so how to care?
Firstly, let us know the meaning of love, what does the term love means ?
Love is a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness, we can also say that love is a feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair ; the emotion of sex and romance.
How to show your lover, wife or husbund that you realy care and love ? some partners are  taking marriage or relationship as just a simple thing but in order to prolong your love to the some body you love, you need to do some steps of things which are very easy, have a look on these things to do.

*You need to know that love is the act of will and not a feeling expressed by experience. What does this means ? it means that you must deny yourself and find to meet all the things that your partner needs, and not make your own things, this will make your partner feel proudy of you and adore you all the time.

*Find out the beautiful words and language prefered by your lover. « romantic language » in order that your partner to feel that she or he is loved, you need to seek some good and romantic words to tell her or him, also some beautiful and loving actions you must do to her or him, some one feel happy when she or he receives gifts and some lovely touches and words from the one she or he love, always the true love is not based up on your prefference, but your partner’s.
*Speak your love. Clear communication will let your partner know how much you love them. Speaking from your experience is a way of sharing yourself so that your partner can hear it. You might say, "My heart expands when you walk into the room" or "I think about you throughout my day, and each time I do, I smile." Say whatever is true. Remember that actions often speak louder than words; don't just say something, do something.



*Show your love through your actions, such as drawing a bath, giving a massage, singing songs to your partner. Choose an action that you know your partner will appreciate. Remember, denying yourself never means doing things begrudgingly. If you communicate the desire not to do something loving, you may as well not be doing it.

*Spend most of your time being present with your partner. (This is often the least used, but the most powerful form of loving.) Turn off the phone, the TV, computer, and the radio and sit together allowing yourselves to experience each other. Being present with your husband or wife obviously provides the opportunity to serve him or her, so be available to love your spouse.

*Seek the truth. Telling your partner the truth is a loving thing to do because it shows trust and respect. The truth doesn't have to be positive to be meaningful. It just needs to be true. Show your spouse unconditional love, but not unconditional acceptance. Don't be caught up into the cultural notion that to love is to never seek to help someone better himself or herself. Use gracious words to point out your spouse's weaknesses and offer constructive suggestions on how to improve these things. Always be willing to accept correction from your spouse too.

Always you must put in you mind that
*If you want to have a healthy relationship, discover more ways to express your love. Use warmth, kindness, compassion, humour, presence, truthfulness, sharing, and sexiness. Open up your senses for fun and your communication strategies for success by using principles of reciprocity, compassion, and equanimity. Always be courteous, fair, and truthful, and the interaction with your partner will flourish.

*To have staying power and build a healthy relationship, stay present to your connection to your loved one. Be creative and discover love together.

*Remember that service and love are inherently connected, whatever you know your partner needs, that is what you should be doing to him or her. The moments you start insisting on your own ways or doing whatever you want, you stop showing love to your spouse.

*Remember to take your partner at different places out for dinner, vacation, movies and others, all these will help to strengthern your love. 


BUT BARE IN YOUR MIND THAT ALL THESE ARE TO THOSE WHO ARE ALREADY IN MARRIAGE AND NOT OTHERWISE

Prepared ny Jacqueline Jackson
     Managing Director of MgonjahMedias


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